What to say to someone with cancer

 
talking about cancer

Do not be afraid to talk with your friend.

It is better to say, “I don’t know what to say” than to stop calling or visiting out of fear.

Here are some things you can say to help show your care and support:

  • I'm sorry this has happened to you.

  • If you ever feel like talking, I’m here to listen.

  • What are you thinking of doing, and how can I help?

  • I care about you.

  • I’m thinking about you.

Here are examples of phrases that are unhelpful:

  • I know just how you feel.

  • I know just what you should do.

  • I’m sure you’ll be fine.

  • Don’t worry.